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Even if you do, ofcourse you first interact online and then meet. For, in these bonds, no real meetings and interactions takes place at the primary level. We bond when we meet someone over a period of time, spend time talking together and being with each other in person. You may be very greatly bonded with someone you have hardly met. It involves not just emotional but also physical, mental and spiritual space.

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Therefore online dating’s another flaw is the lack of seriousness. Perhaps talking a lot and knowing someone very well is possible through the internet, it may also lead to some genuine feelings, but certainly not everlasting ones. It cannot be found by merely talking for long hours or meeting once or twice or looking at the best pictures of each other. Trust is the most essential requirement of a relationship and it can’t be assured online.

A crush, an infatuation or attraction is possible, but LOVE is not. How can one fall in love by merely talking too much? Fake accounts, false promise, lies, wrong information are very easily given online and there is no way to authenticate them, thus trapping many online dates.

Hence, trust is essentially a matter of consideration for those looking for a date online.

This very basis of a relationship goes missing online, making it a bad idea altogether.

A couple of months ago, I was sitting at a bar minding my own business when the woman next to me did something strange.

Surrounded by potential partners, she pulled out her phone, hid it coyly beneath the counter, and opened the online dating app Tinder.

The void in our lives leads us to this path of online dating but after a period of time it only ends up to be a bad experience overall. Lack of Seriousness How serious can we get for someone we don’t know in the real world?

There may be for a few days an intense feeling of connection and bonding, but this is short lived. The major reason being that we don’t know any background of the partner we found online. And hence, there is always a sense of suspicion, doubt and insecurity with an online partner. Loyalty Loyalty is an inevitable parameter of love.

At this point, we should all know at least one friend who's gone on an online date.

Maybe we even a few cute couples who've had great relationships, or even gotten married by thanks to OKCupid, Plenty Of Fish, Tinder, Grindr (OK, nobody's getting married off of Grindr...

In many cases it happens that the comfort and freedom we feel and share with a person virtually is a complete fiasco in person. Ofcourse everyone has their own share of flaws, and no one likes to reveal them. When you date somebody online, there can be a million things they hide from you and you don’t even have a clue of them.

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