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And these are men who in actuality, by looking and talking to them, cannot afford to be so picky.

There are plenty of people who would love to travel or get outdoors more.

Maybe they have an exhausting job, or kids to care for.

They therefore feel they should be able to pull a man their age or a few years their junior.

The men with trepidation about dating women their age fear that people will assume something is wrong with them that they couldn’t find a younger woman.

Then they talk about how much they love hiking and biking and various other activities. Louis’s explanation as to why he doesn’t want to meet women “in that age range” rings false to me.

I think people need to be made aware of the fact that an activity does not count as a lifestyle. Living in a city versus a suburb (or vice versa) is a lifestyle. I don’t think this is about lifestyle choices at all.

Or maybe they just don’t have anything to prove and are perfectly okay with being their age. But please stop using silly excuses that are really just a mask for your own fear of being judged negatively by people.

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As I said in a comment today, men have more options now than ever before.

Between the fact that fewer women are marrying and how more and more women are taking a more casual attitude towards sex, men have a bevvy of options from which to choose.

No, you just don’t want anybody – namely other women – to look at you and wonder if that was is the best you could do.

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